I dont know if such a thing called "mommies' support group" exists.. But at this very moment, i felt so weak, so tired, and i really wish i have a group of mommies that can cheer me up and telling me that i can get thru today strongly..
Seriously!! I think most moms are just too shy to admit that they need help or need support.. And sometimes, other ppl are so judgemental when listening to mommies stories (read: complaints)..
For me, i would be very happy if other moms would share bout their struggles as well.. Not just all the perfect pictures or perfect stories, written perfectly with perfect wordings..
Coz the truth is, motherhood can be far from perfection, yet so rewarding! No deny about that!
I just think, we, as moms, need to learn to be honest to ourselves.. And just admit it when we just couldnt do what we need to do sometimes.. And it's totally okay.. No need to beat urself up.. No need to feel like a failure..
I'm sure, there are many times when we just couldnt take another step and wanna give up, but we didn't! That what makes mom stronger and stronger day by day..
So, to all new mums out there..
When u see those moms with 2, 3, or even 4 kids, doing grocery shopping on her own.. While u r struggling to get out of ur house with 1 child.. Dont beat urself up.. U r a super woman just like those other moms.. U will get there eventually.. U just need to do the routine training daily.. Patiently.. And one day, u'll give tips to other new moms.. And they'll see u as a super woman as well! Haha..
I wish there's such a thing called "mommies' support group"...
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